Dampak media sosial terhadap dinamika relasi suami dan istri dalam perspektif Fiqh al-Usrah di Kabupaten Ponorogo

Baroya, Muhammad Iqbal and Isnatin, Ulfah (2024) Dampak media sosial terhadap dinamika relasi suami dan istri dalam perspektif Fiqh al-Usrah di Kabupaten Ponorogo. Antologi Hukum, 4 (2). pp. 1-17. ISSN . (Unpublished)

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Abstract

INDONESIA:
Pernikahan dalam Islam bertujuan membentuk keluarga yang harmonis (sakinah, mawaddah, wa rahmah) melalui interaksi langsung, komunikasi yang sehat, dan pemenuhan hak serta kewajiban berdasarkan prinsip mu'āsharah bi al-ma'rūf. Namun, penetrasi media sosial yang masif telah menggeser pola interaksi suami-istri dari ruang domestik yang privat ke ruang digital yang terbuka, memicu kecemburuan digital, social comparison, pengabaian pasangan, bahkan tren perceraian yang mengkhawatirkan—seperti yang terjadi di Kabupaten Ponorogo, di mana sejumlah kasus perceraian dipicu oleh konten media sosial dan gaya hidup digital. Kondisi ini menunjukkan adanya kesenjangan antara idealitas tujuan pernikahan dalam Fiqh Al-Usrah dengan realitas perilaku berumah tangga di era digital, yang belum banyak dikaji secara normatif-keagamaan.

Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk menjawab dua rumusan masalah utama: (1) Bagaimana dampak media sosial terhadap interaksi suami dan istri dalam rumah tangga perspektif Fiqh Al-Usrah? (2) Bagaimana dinamika keluarga dalam mewujudkan akhlak mulia di era media sosial perspektif Fiqh Al-Usrah. Penelitian ini merupakan penelitian kualitatif lapangan (field research) dengan pendekatan normatif yang berlokasi di Kabupaten Ponorogo. Data dikumpulkan melalui tiga teknik, yaitu wawancara terstruktur, observasi, dan dokumentasi. Sumber data primer diperoleh dari empat pasang informan suami-istri yang aktif menggunakan media sosial dan telah menikah minimal satu tahun. Sumber data sekunder mencakup dokumen perceraian dari Pengadilan Agama Ponorogo serta berbagai referensi akademis yang relevan.

Hasil penelitian menunjukkan bahwa Berdasarkan perspektif Fiqh Al-Usrah, dampak media sosial terhadap interaksi suami dan istri bersifat dualistik: secara negatif, penggunaan yang tidak terkendali menjauhkan pasangan dari prinsip mu'āsharah bi al-ma'rūf dan mubādalah melalui berkurangnya komunikasi langsung, social comparison, dan pengabaian pasangan yang berpotensi memicu nushūz hingga shiqāq; secara positif, penggunaan yang bijak menjadikannya sarana komunikasi, edukasi, dan penguatan ikatan emosional yang selaras dengan tujuan keluarga sakinah, mawaddah, wa rahmah. Adapun dalam mewujudkan akhlak mulia di era media sosial, Fiqh Al-Usrah menekankan konsistensi prinsip mītsāqan ghalīẓan, musyawarah, mubādalah, dan mahwal mafāsid di mana perilaku menyembunyikan aktivitas digital dan social comparison harus dicegah melalui keterbukaan dan pengendalian diri, sementara pemanfaatan media sosial untuk produktivitas ekonomi, berbagi kebahagiaan, dan dokumentasi keluarga merupakan wujud nyata akhlak kemitraan yang dianjurkan.

INGGRIS:
Marriage in Islam aims to form a harmonious family (sakinah, mawaddah, wa rahmah) through direct interaction, healthy communication, and the fulfillment of rights and obligations based on the principle of mu'āsharah bi al-ma'rūf. However, the massive penetration of social media has shifted the pattern of husband-wife interaction from a private domestic space to an open digital space, triggering digital jealousy, social comparison, neglect of partners, and even a worrying trend of divorce—as occurred in Ponorogo Regency, where a number of divorce cases were triggered by social media content and digital lifestyles. This condition shows a gap between the ideal goals of marriage in Fiqh Al-Usrah and the reality of household behavior in the digital era, which has not been widely studied from a normative-religious perspective.

This research aims to explain the impact of social media on husband-wife interactions and family dynamics in realizing noble morals, both from the perspective of Fiqh Al-Usrah based on the thoughts of Faqihuddin Abdul Kodir. This study is a qualitative field research with a normative approach located in Ponorogo Regency. Data were collected through three techniques, namely structured interviews, observation, and documentation. Primary data sources were obtained from four pairs of husband and wife informants who actively use social media and have been married for at least one year. Secondary data sources include divorce documents from the Ponorogo Religious Court and various relevant academic references.

The results of the study show that Based on the perspective of Fiqh Al-Usrah, the impact of social media on husband and wife interactions is dualistic: negatively, uncontrolled use distances couples from the principles of mu'āsharah bi al-ma'rūf and mubādalah through reduced direct communication, social comparison, and neglect of partners that have the potential to trigger nushūz to shiqāq; positively, wise use makes it a means of communication, education, and strengthening emotional bonds that are in line with the goals of a sakinah, mawaddah, wa rahmah family. As for realizing noble morals in the era of social media, Fiqh Al-Usrah emphasizes the consistency of the principles of mītsāqan ghalīẓan, musyawarah, mubādalah, and mahwal mafāsid where the behavior of hiding digital activities and social comparison must be prevented through openness and self-control, while the use of social media for economic productivity, sharing happiness, and family documentation is a real manifestation of the recommended partnership morals.

Item Type: Journal Article
Subjects: 18 LAW AND LEGAL STUDIES > 1899 Other Law and Legal Studies > 189999 Law and Legal Studies not elsewhere classified
Divisions: Fakultas Syariah > Jurusan Hukum Keluarga Islam
Depositing User: Admin Perpustakaan Pusat
Date Deposited: 23 Jun 2026 07:59
Last Modified: 02 Jul 2026 03:12

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